My first time bottoming was a nightmare come to life. I was in pain the entire time, not to mention super self-conscious about my partner being all up in my rear end. If you're not familiar with the term, "bottoming" refers to being on the receiving end of anal sex, meaning the "bottom" is the partner putting the penis or dildo inside of them. The person sticking said penis or dildo inside the bottom is referred to as the "top.
How to Bottom: A Beginner's Guide to Being on the Receiving End
If you engage in anal play or bottoming, you may be wondering how to clean yourself out before anal sex. After all, we were not taught this in sex ed and often have to figure it out on our own. There are many ways to clean up, get comfortable, and feel confident before anal sex, and one of those ways is to use an anal douche. While we love douching for how effective and easy it is, there are proper measures that should be taken to make sure that you are doing it safely. Below, Dr. Goldstein explains how to anal douche properly while answering the most common questions about all things related to anal cleansing. Anal douching aka rectal douching is the act of cleansing the rectum and anal canal, most traditionally done with liquid expelled from a douche bulb.
I always wondered this. I would be very grateful if someone told me how gays clean themselves down there. Some people use the things that are like a douche, but its actually not good. It gets rid of the mucus lining the inside with keeps it from tearing.
Sexually Transmitted Diseases STDs have been rising among gay and bisexual men, with increases in syphilis being seen across the country. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men often get other STDs, including chlamydia and gonorrhea infections. Some types of HPV can cause genital and anal warts and some can lead to the development of anal and oral cancers. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men are 17 times more likely to get anal cancer than heterosexual men. All sexually active gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men should be tested regularly for STDs.